Come on, admit it, you've thought about anal play... we all have. We wonder what all the hype is about and what it is about back door play that is turning on men and women alike all over the world. Well, your questions are all about to be answered right here, right now and one by one.
What's all the hype with anal play?
While it's not everyone's cup of tea, anal stimulation does feel great and unlike anything else. A lot of the hype though is psychological because of anal sex being considered taboo. There is just something about the forbidden that makes us want to do try it and for some it won't live up to their expectations while others will never tire of doing it knowing that it's considered risque.
Will it hurt?
Probably. The good thing is that there are ways to help keep the pain to a minimum and when done right, the pain is so slight that it blends in quite nicely with the pleasure.
What can I do to make it hurt less?
Some things that will make all the difference in the world; your level of arousal and your speed. Don't even try anal penetration unless you are VERY aroused. The more turned on you are the more relaxed your sphincter will be so the more easily you can be penetrated. Also remember to go slowly and take it easy-this is not something you want to rush! Also, for the first time, an anal sex toy is probably a better bet than a penis. First, with a toy, you can use it on your own and at your own pace and this is definitely helpful as far as your comfort level goes. Also, because anal sex toys are made just for this body part, you can be sure that they're made with comfort in mind. Finally, you MUST, MUST, MUST use lube and lots of it!! When it comes to anal, the slicker the better!!
Will anal sex toys make actual anal sex better?
Yes in the sense that you can experiment on your own before trying it with a partner and therefore have a good idea of what feels best and even know how to tell them what you want and need. And, who says that you can't use the butt plug or other anal toys with your partner?? If you’re a little gun-shy about getting onto something as big as a penis, then have your partner use an anal toy on you. Very hot!
What kinds of anal sex toys are there?
Where should I begin?? Anal toys come in all sizes and various shapes depending on the type of toy. Butt plugs are generally cone-shaped and taper near the base before widening out again. This is so you get the pleasure of being filled by the wider part while the tapered part accommodates your sphincter. It widens back out again to keep it from going in too far. Anal probes tend to be longer and narrower for... well... probing! Then there are anal beads which are either beads on a string or a single piece that alternates between wider and narrower to mimic beads on a string. All of these toys come in a variety of materials from silicone to glass.
With so much selection, what should I chose?
It all comes down to a matter of preference as to what you should get, however you should be sure that the toys you chose are phthalates free. Also, sex toys need to be kept clean and should never be used on another part of the body after having been in your anus without being cleaned thoroughly first to avoid the spread of bacteria. Speaking of bacteria; glass sex toys are proven to be the most hygienic and easy to care for which makes for a great choice when it comes to butt plugs, probes and beads.
Are glass sex toys safe?
Definitely! They're made from strong and durable Pyrex which means that they wouldn't likely break unless thrown at a wall or something so you don't need to worry about it breaking while inside of you or anything. They are also very smooth which actually aids in making penetration easier. And, as mentioned; they are non-porous and very hygienic. Keeping them clean is as easy as some soap and warm water or even running them through the dishwasher! And don’t worry about the fact that they don’t bend because you actually want your anal toys to be VERY firm for easier penetration into your most sensitive spot.
Any final advice?
Yes. Be patient. Don't try anal for anyone but yourself. And have fun!!
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